Why I Became a Parenting Expert (And What I Want Parents to Know Most)
Parenting is one of the most rewarding and life-changing experiences—but it’s also messy, unpredictable, and often exhausting. If you're feeling like you’re constantly trying to figure things out as you go, you’re not alone. I’ve been there too (a lot). And that’s exactly why I do what I do.
I didn’t start my career thinking I’d become a parenting expert. In fact, I didn’t even believe in the idea of an “expert” in parenting for a long time—because the truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Every child is different. Every family is unique. But what I did know was that parents, no matter how much they love their kids, often feel lost and overwhelmed. And I wanted to change that.
My journey into this work started with a deep curiosity about child development. I wanted to understand why children behave the way they do, how they learn and grow, and what parents can do to support them in a way that feels natural—without the guilt, without the pressure to be perfect. I pursued education, spent years researching, and worked hands-on with families (both in and out of school) to apply everything I learned in real-life situations. What I found was that no amount of knowledge matters if parents feel like they’re failing.
So here’s what I want you to know:
There is no “right” way to parent. Parenting isn’t about following a perfect script—it’s about learning, adjusting, and doing the best you can with what you know and the child (or children) that you have.
You’re not supposed to have all the answers. Even after years of experience, I still have many days where I second-guess myself. That’s part of the process. What matters is that you’re showing up, learning, and growing alongside your child.
Doing the best you can is better than being perfect. Kids don’t need perfect parents. They need present parents. They need to know they’re loved, safe, and supported—even when we don’t have it all figured out.
I share this because I want parents to feel seen. I want you to know that I’ll always be honest with you—no sugarcoating, no unrealistic advice, just real, research-backed guidance to help you feel more confident in your parenting journey.
